What is Success?
Growing up, we are hardwired to believe that success is always measured in monetary terms. π°
You need to be a millionaire to be considered successful. π· π· π·
You need to drive a fast car to be successful. π
You need at least 6 bedrooms and a swimming pool in your house to be successful. π° πβοΈ
And so on and so on……. π
But how many of the ‘successful’ people that have all of these things are genuinely happy? π€
I’d bet very few. π€¦βοΈ
And why aren’t they happy? π€·
Because nothing is ever enough. They hit one milestone, and then move the goalposts in order to achieve more. π₯
So if they’re not genuinely happy underneath the ‘social media façade’ that they put on, can they really be considered successful? π€
Now I’m not for one minute saying don’t be ambitious and don’t strive to achieve dreams and goals in your life. π π₯
But work out WHY, you want to achieve certain goals. π€
If you have a powerful WHY, chances are when you achieve your goal it will bring you happiness. π
Without a powerful WHY, you are more likely trying to achieve something to prove a point to somebody else, so the sense of genuine achievement and the happiness you expect to gain will never come. π
I used to chase money, and I did it under the guise that I was doing it to make my family happy. But in reality, I was pushing them away because they wanted me π¨π©π§π§ ….. Not the bank balance I was working so hard to try and achieve. π€
I didn’t know my WHY! π€·βοΈ
Now I do, I am still ‘successful’ and financially I do well for my family, however, the difference is, I am doing it in a way that allows me to be around more so they aren’t suffering in the process. π₯°
Will it take longer, yes, but my family and I are all going to be happy in the process meaning we don’t have to wait a years before we can enjoy our lives together. π
What is your point Adam π₯± π΄ ……
Dreams and goals are important, absolutely they are! But when you are defining your goals and dreams, make sure you know your WHY. π€
Dig deep, I mean REALLY DEEP! π³
Work out what you are building your business for and make sure you aren’t jeopardising your WHY in the process of achieving your dreams! π β¨
I still have dreams and goals that I am working towards, but now I know my WHY, and I have adapted how I am going to achieve them, I consider myself to be successful already! π
Yes I am working towards more, but I am happy, my family are happy, we are enjoying the journey together. π¨π©π§π§
Figure out your WHY, and you can become instantly successful WHILE you build the future you want to build. π€
Wow, a bit of a deep business bite today!
If you’d like help digging deep and figuring out your WHY. π€·π»βοΈ
Give me a shout! π£






